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Do ...

... step right up and catch your Aries's eye. Let them notice what a prize you are -- and then let them try to win you.

... take a bold approach -- your Aries will appreciate your forwardness as well as your independent spirit.

... be up for anything, whether it's a midnight rendezvous at the beach or a ride on whitewater rapids.

... brace yourself: An Aries will surprise you no matter what you're ready for. Every day is a different adventure.

... get ready to enjoy an always energetic and ever-so-romantic courtship.

... expect fun: Your Aries will carry you away in a flurry of bouquets, balloons and little treats you could never expect.

... learn to lay back and enjoy, as your Aries lover will sweep you up in a whirlwind of passion.

... take pride in your Aries's irrepressible spirit.

... bask in your Ram's radiance -- they will be the winner of the race, the life of the party or the star of your own private, personal show.

Don't ...

... cling too tightly or chase too hard. Your Aries will quickly take steps to preserve their freedom.

... be too critical of them or their friends.

... get overly critical -- they will get hurt and leap to defend. Don't hold a grudge, either.

... try to get some extra attention by flirting with others or by bringing up past flings. These tricks will surely backfire with an Aries, who would prefer that you leave the past where it belongs and give your present relationship full attention.

... decide you are not in the mood once you lure your Aries into your arms. Your Aries will take it to mean you don't want them any more, even if this is opposite of the truth.